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Yoga is the practice of quieting the mind (Patanjali)

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built (Rumi)

What you think you become (Buddha)

Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle (Plato)

Latest News at YoManTra - Petra's Weekly Newsletters from 2026

5/3/26 I signed up for a workshop, only to receive an email a little while later announcing that it was cancelled. It was a Longevity workshop. Considering that my classes at the gym are called Yoga for Longevity, I thought it prudent to get a bit more informed on this topic, not just from a movement perspective.

While the workshop is not happening, I have been doing a little bit of research on my own on
what may help with longevity, from a food perspective. Here I am listing what I learned from reading books from the recommended book list, including two by William W. Li, MD.

Food can help restore your body to health. We are all prone to sickness, developing cancer cells, attacks to our DNA. The bodily systems that keep us from withering away and dying prematurely are:
- Angiogenesis can create little blood vessels where they are needed, eg after any injury. When Angiogenesis is not working perfectly, the body may become vulnerable to things like psoriasis, Alzheimer's, rheumatoid arthritis, various cancers.
- Regeneration means that your body rebuilds itself constantly. Imagine that your small intestine regenerates itself twice a week. All parts of the body regrow constantly, as long as stem cells are generated to replace worn our cells. When the stem cell bank is depleted, conditions can surface like chronic wounds, diabetes, osteoarthritis, macular degeneration.
- Your microbiome is virtually all over your body, especially on the skin and in body cavities and inside the gut. Its functions are heavily influenced by diet. Dysbiosis of the microbiome can lead to asthma, celiac disease, diabetes, food allergies, IBS, obesity, Parkinson's, rheumatoid arthritis, and various cancers.
- Your DNA sustains thousands of naturally occurring damaging events every day. Trillions of cells replicate non-stop, so some errors are prone to happen. Other errors can be due to inflammation or infection, toxins, and sun damage. When DNA defenses are breached, conditions like Alzheimer's, depression, diabetes, obesity, Parkinson's, rheumatoid arthritis could take a foothold.
- A strong immune system keeps not only a cold at bay but can also squish cancers. It is the best health defense system we have. When the immune system is weak, the following conditions and many more can take hold: Cancers, asthma, allergies, MS, obesity.

The below recommended food list that supports these processes aiding longevity and health is not complete. It however will give some ideas:

1. Cruciferous veggies like broccoli, Brussels sprouts, cauliflower, kohlrabi, radishes, kale
2. Veggies and legumes esp onion, garlic, carrots, spicy peppers, tomatoes, mushrooms, beans, soy, lentils, chickpeas
3. Fruit esp. all berries, kiwi, mangoes, watermelon, apples, plums, oranges, cherries
4. Dark chocolate at >80% cocoa content
5. The only recommended fat is cold pressed olive oil
6. Nuts and seeds
7. Sauerkraut, kimchi, and other brined veggies
8. Herbs, spices and tea
9. All fish
10. When it comes to animal products, the only ones recommended are yogurt, cheeses like Gouda, Emmental, Stilton, Parmesan, Camembert, and only the dark meat in chicken thighs. That's it.
11. Sugar, artificial sweeteners, and white flours do not support longevity and health, same as all highly processed products with ingredients you would not use in home cooking.
12. Red wine may be ok but the downsides from the alcohol mostly outweigh the rather small resveratol content. Beer has some good bacteria and is recommended in small-ish amounts.
13. Vitamin D, Omega 3s, Resveratol may be very good supplements to research and consider taking

Visceral fat that is crammed into crevices inside the abdomen squeezes inner organs like a bear hug. Too much of it can release chemicals that cause inflammation and increase the risk for heart disease, stroke, diabetes, Alzheimer's, and cancer. Losing just a few pounds lowers blood pressure and the chance to get any diseases related to visceral fat. A study found that losing 5 pounds means an 18% lower risk of death from any cause. Losing 12 pounds means a 36% reduced death risk. Mortality increased by 14% for every 5% weight gain in this THOP study at Harvard of slightly overweight people in their 30ies and 40ies.

I look at this list, and I know that I could be making better choices. I could stop slathering butter on bread for one. I could lose 10 pounds and fit better into my clothes and get rid of the muffin top. I will be thinking about this the next time I reach into the cabinet for a snack.
There is always something to learn, and I am grateful to all scientists who dedicate their careers to making our lives better and to making me think about what I do habitually, as not all habits serve me well.

4/26/26 I have spent the day painting out a room that I cut in yesterday, then went on to cleaning out dead branches from bushes, turning a mulch pile, and now spent the past couple of hours weeding. I love being outdoors in gorgeous weather like today, but I am utterly exhausted. Weekends are tough! One highlight was steaming the sizable amount of asparagus we had harvested from our asparagus bed and then tasting it. Best asparagus ever! I will also get salad and radishes from the cold frame and ramps from the ramps bed to prepare meals for tomorrow. Having our own garden and putting in the effort to plant, to care for, and to prepare what we harvest is a wonderful thing and also a very intense workout. The other day we had lunch on the porch after we went on a hike, and when I pointed out all the things I was serving that came from our own garden our friend called it 'farm to table'. I chuckled - but she is right. Our little farm. How much better does it get?




4/19/26 The daffodils were showy this year, and I cut some and put them on the kitchen island, so I could adore them while I was hiding indoors from the heat. Only a handful are left now, white ones with frilly centers, some a little yellow, some a little pink. Amazing, how nature manages to create the most beautiful flowers. And also very fleeting. A couple more days, and they will also be turning into mush. The tulips sure did, they all opened their petals for a day and then they wilted again in the unseasonable heat. The ones I cut lasted longer than the ones in the yard.

Most things in life are like this. They come and they go. We can watch not only the
changes around us but also within us, if we are mindful. When I got out of bed I realized I got poison ivy yesterday when walking to the opossum's hiding place to bring him a couple of chicken legs. I know it will be a few days of annoyance at some intervals, mostly of waking up in the middle of the night scratching my ankles, and then it will be over. There was a brief moment of annoyance with myself, and then the reach into the cabinet for steroid cream. This too shall pass.

Since then, sitting in the kitchen, I have felt good in my body, and I have savored the absence of bodily sensations or tension from stress. A quiet morning with some pitter patter of welcome rain, cats that are more or less patiently waiting for more food to arrive, and the smell of coffee in the air. I know it will not be like this forever, and I truly enjoy and feel what it feels like being relaxed and at peace.

Funny enough, just a minute after I typed the above, I was asked to teach at the gym this morning. I better go and contact people affected by the rearrangement of my schedule. I am glad I had a wonderfully relaxing hour earlier as that's not going to come back for a while now.




4/12/26 The blooms are gorgeous. The garden is popping, and so are many blooming trees. We walk outdoors, enjoying how nature is coming back to life. The cats don't even want to come back indoors now that they can lie in the sun and suck up the heat of the rays and play with whatever moves outdoors. We all just love it.
How to enjoy oneself but be safe as the same time... Of course, there are pitfalls to all the loveliness, like it is with everything.

It's
allergy season. My eyes itch and once I start to rub, I can hardly take my hands from them. My nose drips especially at night when I want to go to sleep. Once there is an effect on my sleep it is time to take action. Similasan homeopathic eye drops help me. They won't cause cataracts and they are effectively just salt water - how much better does it get than zero side effects. I also started to use a neti pot twice a day. A recent article in the New York Times confirms what I have experienced: It is amazingly simple, cheap, fast and it has a lot of positive benefits. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/26/well/live/neti-pot.html
Once I am ready for some real meds, I go with Flonase before I swallow any pills, which do have side effects.


3/29/26 Something on my mind is a birthday party we went to yesterday. Joe, the birthday child, turned 100. He is a WWII vet and lives in his home with his wife, who is 96. We went to their house, which is beautiful, large, and spanking clean with old kitchen appliances and an intercom that allowed them to summon their kids when they overslept.
We were there for 7 hours, and during this time, I took in what I saw, as considering that I teach Yoga for Longevity, it seems prudent to watch and learn.

Joe looks his age. I saw a lot of muscle loss. I saw a large curve in his spine. But I did not see a hearing aid and I did not see glasses on his nose, although he was watching sports on the silenced TV. He opened and read his birthday cards out loud. He has a cell phone that one of his kids gifted him a speaker for so he can hear his podcasts and Spotify music better. He is an avid sports fan and it seems that he remembers recent events just as well as distant ones.

Dinner was supposed to be served early but there was a delay due to the traffic situation yesterday afternoon, so we asked him all kinds of things about the war and about how he met his wife and how he is not allowed to drive any longer but still gets behind the wheel every day to take his wife down the short driveway to the mail box where she gets out to collect the mail, he turns the car around, and then he drives back up the driveway and parks the car there. The neighbors are mostly retired as well and they all look out for each other. They have help in the form of a cleaner that comes once a week.

During most of our visit Joe sat on the couch, which is not a very high couch at all, but has 2 hand rests on either side of him that allow him to use his arms to get to standing. He uses a rollator. Nobody helped him get around, as it was clear he did not need help. I saw him park the rollator in front of the bathroom and walk in to use it.
Dinner being several hours later than expected was clearly no issue at all for either Joe or his wife. Neither of them went to take a nap. Neither of them ever complained. They both ate every offered food, participated in conversations across the table, laughed, and obviously enjoyed the day with relatives and friends of their kids.

What I saw is a very loving couple, who must push themselves hard, and it is not at all obvious to the observer that they do but what one sees speaks for itself. They both navigate the day with what they have. They have loving relationships. They have a supportive community of neighbors, church friends, and their family. They still uphold a standard of care and integration into society that seem befitting for people several decades younger. There was also an acceptance that seems hard to find, where most people complain about this and that all the time. Oh, dinner is not ready until 8 and we will finish dessert by 10, no problem at all. Joe even made a joke about things being later than expected and that did not seem to bother him. I felt like their lives probably have not changed in a massive way in decades. 'Use it or lose it' and 'Go with the flow' come to mind.

And so I learned some things yesterday about aging gracefully by watching this lovely couple navigate their day. I am grateful to have been there to observe. Hopefully this is not the last 100th birthday celebration that I will be happy to attend. I look forward to participating in yours, if I am able and if you will have me.




3/22/26 I already cried this morning. Initially tears of sorrow, then they turned into tears of joy. We have not seen the opossum in a couple of weeks and the raccoons have come to wipe out the plentiful food I put out every night. I realize this is mating season, so I thought maybe our opossum left its winter home and went on a walkabout trying to find a partner. I stopped putting food out in the forest and that was that.

Last weekend, Brad and I started to put the
havaheart traps out each morning to capture and relocate squirrels, since they are a real garden pest. Our chosen relocation home offers plentiful food and shelter and we believe we are not doing them a major disservice. Last night we forgot to close the larger of the traps. This morning it was closed and I was shocked to see the opossum sitting in it. I carried the trap to the forest and watched as it dashed straight back to the horse stables. My initial reaction was anguish as will this opossum ever come back into our yard if it experienced hours sitting inside the trap. But then I lightened up as there was a bunch of good food inside the trap, which it ate, and it is not sunny this morning, which was hopefully not too bad for its eyes. Best of all, I now know that our opossum is alive and well and still around! The opossum did not act scared and did not snarl - it clearly recognized us - so maybe it was not all that bad an experience after all.




3/15/26 The snow has only been gone for a week. My body however knows that I am in the middle of the gardening season. Yesterday I spent 6 hours working outdoors, bending down to the ground an estimated 500 times, cleaning up the yard and then spreading wood chips and dirt. My body can really feel it. Last weekend, I managed to fall over the much too long handle of a gardening tool and face planted. It felt like a great start to the annual chores for sure. Yesterday, a much too heavy wheel barrow fell over as I was trying to empty it, and I made deep ruts in the soft ground as I was trying to fully empty it and then to get it upright again. Every year I fight the fact that most tools a gardener uses are
made by men for men. They are too long, too heavy, and they require way too much strength.

What does this have to do with yoga? Well, yoga makes me feel the same way. Some women may fare all right with Vinyasa Yoga, Ashtanga Yoga and how they are all called, my body however called quits. The omnipresent warrior postures require movement in the hips, low back, and knees that my body is not willing to give. The constant pushups, cobras, and downward dogs are intense on my delicate wrists and shoulders. If I take a yoga class taught by someone else today, I modify almost every posture as what is offered is just not for me.

Who came up with Western yoga postures and flows? That it's all about Asana, the postures, is a phenomenon of our society today, as originally, yoga was not about postures at all but rather about the mind. Indian Sages would bottle up so much prana energy from the yoga they did sitting around all day, that their bodies would flow from posture to posture, without any blue print, called Mediation in Motion. It wasn't called yoga at all, more a side effect of it. At some point, someone watched and wrote down key postures, like taking a snap shot during every couple of seconds. Then someone gave those postures Sanskrit names. Then someone strung them together with the breath and called it Vinyasa Flow. The postures, which got Sanskrit names are all pretty flashy. Things like a wall sit did not get included. Not flashy enough I guess, or maybe sages had no walls closeby.

Anyway, this system that originated with men and was propelled by men into the West has little concern for women. I assume that I am not the only one struggling with it, as I shaped my classes not just for my own body but also with the feedback that I have gotten from my yoga peeps (Thank You!). I was able to do this as I am in control of the content of my yoga sessions. Gardening, not so, as it needs tools one buys in stores. Show me the wheel barrow that is made for women at our local stores, light and easy to maneuver, and such that someone my size can empty the whole thing without leaving an armful behind. Or buckets that can be carried without having to bend the arm, or the pitchfork that is not super heavy and comes with a handle not designed for Big Foot's arms.

I will be out there again shortly, and I will try to remember that the men who came up with something like 100 Sun Salutations or the common wheel barrow design are not inhabitants of my body or my home. I will stay mindful and I will scream in frustration as I see fit. What will you be spending this beautiful Spring day with?




3/8/26 A recent TIME magazine article caught my attention:
Why you should warm up your feet before bed. I know this one very well, as if my feet are cold when I attempt to climb into bed, they will never warm and sleep will never come. I can wear thick socks on cold feet and tuck the duvet around my feet all I want, the night is doomed if I don't get up and actively warm my feet up first.

The article explains that body temperature leads our sleep cycle. Sleep comes when the central area is cooler, signaling it is time to rest. Blood flows more easily to the skin and extremities when they are already warm, allowing excess heat to escape the bodily core. Cold hands and feet make this process harder, and with that it becomes hard to drift off.
Ideas for how to warm hands and feet effectively: taking a hot shower or bath, which heats the skin, or using a heating pad and a timer, especially under the cervical spine (you read that right). Wearing warm socks before turning in to ensure feet do not cool down in the first place is recommended as well.

I usually revert to a hot foot bath before bed if my feet are not toasty. Sometimes I fill a hot bottle and sit at my desk, feet firmly on the heat, until my feet warm. Taking the hot bottle to bed has in some cases led to a wet disaster, due to their bad ability to seal, so I don't do that any more.
The striking surprise of the article, which offers an explanation to what I've known and felt all my life, is the idea of warming the neck, not the feet or hands. I will have to give that a shot.




3/1/26 If you come to yoga you probably know that I think the
feet are of great importance for the rest of the body, and that they are often not given the care and attention they are due. If something is going on in a foot it could cause detrimental effects somewhere higher up in the body. We stand on tennis balls, we stretch the toes, we even wring them out, and we sometimes do a mini foot reflexology massage. We lift our legs while lying on the back not only to strengthen abdominal muscles, but also to help with circulation in the legs.

A recent TIME magazine contained a health brief on feet and what to watch out for.
1. Hair that stop growing on your toes: just like grass that needs water to grow, hair requires good nutrient supply in order not to fall out. If you toe hair disappears it is likely because of vascular insufficiency, meaning the blood flow back to the heart is hampered.
2. Sudden onset of big toe pain: Gout may require a change in diet.
3. Numbness and tingling in the feet: Some people become aware of such issues at night when the lack of stimulation amps awareness. Such symptoms are most commonly related to diabetes. I personally would also suggest to find a good orthopedic doctor who can check the various reflexes in the foot.
4. A dark streak under a toe nail: Subungual melanoma develops under a nail bed. Color changes in a line in or around the nail should thus not be ignored. If caught too late it could lead to loss of the nail or even amputation of the toe.
5. Injury: If you twist your ankle, sometimes the foot regenerates by itself. But if pain is still there 3 days later see a doctor. It could be the sign of a fracture or dislocation.

Your feet take you thousands of steps every day. When is the last time you sent them some love?




2/22/26 Just a month ago, right before 'the big storm', I wrote about the
opossum. For the ones of you who let me know you loved that story, here is what has happened since:
A day before said storm, we got a couple of inches of snow. The camera next to the feeding spot in our yard showed that the opossum was the only animal that came to the yard that day, so I traced the steps in the snow to where it ventured to. I found the steps disappearing under planks of wood stacked in the the ruin of ancient horse stables in the forest on the other side of our fence. I dumped a loosened bale of straw there and then forgot about it for a couple of days, dealing with the snow.

Opossums in our area only live for about 2 years due to the harsh winters, since they do not hibernate. I was determined to ensure that this lone opossum was due help to up its chances of survival. After the big storm, I took my shovel and I shoveled a path to the gate in the back of the yard and then stomped a trail through the 18" deep snow all the way to horse stables. Anybody who had to shovel knows how much work that was. Every evening before dark, I have made my way down that trail to deposit a pound of walnuts and peanuts, and a cut apple and a banana in several spots at the horse stable. Those foods are not known to attract predators like dogs but would sustain an opossum as well as act as a snack for deer and other critters in dire search of food. In the morning, the food would always be gone. Since temperatures have come up I have added a big bowl of fresh water.

Meanwhile, I have continued to also put food out inside our yard every night although it has been clear that the opossum would be unable to make it there, since its legs are way too short to be able to walk through thick snow. A raccoon, which has longer legs and apparently no difficulties with thick snow, comes every night and eats the nuts and fruit and chicken pieces, which I add as our fence does not allow predators like dogs to enter. Whatever that racoon eats in our yard it's not eating at the horse stables. First thing in the morning I would check our yard camera to see if there was signs of the opossum. Just the racoon came and stuffed itself, night after night, for the past 3.5 weeks, while thick snow cover was on the ground.

And then, this past Thursday, a night with barely below freezing temperatures, finally: the opossum made it back to our yard and was captured by our camera. It snapped up a big piece of chicken, clearly super excited about having found meat. It does not look starved. It looks like it's getting ready for mating season.
I am happy to keep feeding it through the storm that is about to land. How much better does it get, helping beings that rely on something as simple as a bowl of water and a bit of food. Caring for it gives me purpose, it does not cost much, it adds some outdoors exercise, and it will make me so happy when we will be seeing it on our camera next.




2/15/26 The Week contained a Health briefing that struck me as very interesting. A Spanish man
picked up running after he retired as a car mechanic, at age 66. He increased his distance and pace steadily over the years. Now, at 82, he runs marathons and ultra-marathons. Scientists have tested him and have found that his aerobic fitness is better than any octagenarian's studied in history, and comparable with a 20 to 30-year old. His muscles are unusually effective at using oxygen, allowing the sustained exercise. Other body markers are similar to those of a 60, some for a 80-year old man. The article closes with a call to exercise in older age, since it is not only possible but should probably be recommended.

I am not prone to pick up running as that has never been my thing. A picture shows the man, Juan Lopez Garcia, as lean, wiry person, which I am not either. Most people who have not been avid runners in their younger years may not find picking up running in old age all that accessible. It's probably not about marathons won or making it into newspapers, it is about achieving a high quality of life in old age. Life is so much easier when one has the stamina, strength and flexibility for anything from tying shoe laces to getting up from a chair or floor without major issues. I personally find yoga or pilates to be very suitable for older people, even ones new to exercise in decades.

There are virtually no downsides to yoga and pilates I can think of - aside from having to pick an adequate style and backing off on exercises one's unique body does not cope well with. We took a class recently and I did only about 50% of the offered exercises as they were shown by the instructor. The rest I either modified or did something else altogether. If I don't, for days or weeks after I will probably feel off in my neck, shoulders, hip joints, or low back. It is so important in all areas of life and especially exercise to say No when it is adequate to do so. Take what works, leave the rest. But do not skip it altogether.

If you come to the yoga classes I lead you will not end up in the newspaper, but hopefully overall, you get a tad more joy out of your days.




2/8/26 "I looked a hundred times
and all I saw was dust.
The sun broke through
and flecks of gold filled the air."
- Mark Nepo

I met a lot of lovely people assisting over the years at Kripalu. This poem was posted last night by one of them, a gentleman who has been taking care of his parents. I have been reading his updates on Facebook, once he started to overflow and started to write again. But it is gut wrenching to read his plight, the days and nights filled with cleaning and feeding and talking to insurance companies and giving rides, sometimes calling 911 and days later welcoming one of his parents back to their house for more care.

Since I know him it is not like watching a TV show or reading a book, it is like a piece of me is there with him. There is so much
difficulty and frustration. He always finds something positive to say, but one has to read on to find the nugget. After days without water the water is finally flowing again, and 'thanks to kitty litter' during those days, that sort of thing. And then there is a moment he so beautifully describes, where he looks at the sun, standing on the deck, and tiny snow flecks are swirling around him like glitter. He finds the flecks of gold every day, in the deep love for his parents and the care giving that consumes 100% of his time.

Roger makes me aware that despite the annoyances in my life, the frustrations, the uncertainties the country is going through, my life is very sheltered and I can make choices that won't mean someone will suffer or die. I am grateful. What are you grateful for today?


2/4/26 A recent Consumer Reports had an article on pain. Chronic pain means pain sticks around longer than 3 months, and about 25% of US adults have chronic pain. Pain that is so severe that it impacts normal activities on most days is is experienced by about 8% of US adults. My below very, very brief summary does not do service to the many myriads of pain that one can encounter, and it most certainly does not replace seeing a doctor. I am also not even trying to summarize the Medications chapter due to potential medication interactions. Ping me and I will happily let you borrow the magazine if you are interested.

Fear of movement is something to overcome for pains as a result of some sort of injury. It is important to continue low impact activities like walking or yoga or swimming or physical therapy. Consider applying topical ointments. The RICE method may be of use, rest - ice - compression - elevation. Acupuncture could also help.
Nerve pain can be caused by pinched nerves or nerve damage. The usual over the counter medications don't tend to help here. Cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness meditation are recommended: One review of 33 studies with 1,453 participants found that these techniques can significantly reduce pain and distress. The director of the Health and Mindfulness Laboratory of UCSD is quoted in saying that mindfulness is very effective in immediately assuaging the experience of pain flare-ups.

I have had my own experience with pain. A devastating head on car collision made me take a time out from work for over 2 years, with pain felt daily for almost a decade after. I did hundreds of hours of physical therapy for almost every body part, and have worked on rearranging my bodily posture since.

Not everything recommended in the article works for me. I found that TENS units do the opposite for me of what they are supposed to do: they cause even more tension. So does acupuncture. I also found that topical ointments only help if I use them over an extended amount of time, weeks rather than days.

Anything that relaxes my mind and my body is very important to keep pain at bay. I do yoga and pilates very regularly to stay strong and limber at the same time, and to remind myself of being mindful. I strengthen specific parts of my body while trying to not aggravate others. I take half hour to hour long walks almost every day. A homeopathic cream for nerve pain managed to recently shut down lingering pain in my right thumb and around my sacrum. I have been taking glucosamine sulfate and collagen supplements off and on for a year now and seem to think that they help quiet down recurring joint pains in those same joints that I have been dealing with since said car accident. When tension does strike, a 20 to 25 minute stay in a hot tub does wonders for me, prior to the onset of any real pain. So does everything that causes joy: hanging out with friends, being outdoors, gardening, cooking, caring for our pets.
It took a long time for me to find a recipe to cope, and I hope that the drive to find comfort and ease will keep me on my toes, able to help myself and others who join me for yoga and mindfulness.



1/25/26 This weekend, aside from all the grave stuff in the news and the snow that is coming down now, I became aware of some really lovely things.

First, a cow in Austria has used sticks and a broom for years to scratch herself. Here is a video showing her do so,
https://video.search.yahoo.com/search/video?fr=yfp-t&p=austrian+cow+scratches+itself#id=1&vid=aeb108a3867635ea134d60db66145f76&action=click
Cows may not have the opposable thumbs to enable them to do any of the myriad things that people do all day long, but within their means, they can clearly be quite creative.

Then, I read about a musician having saved an octopus from a fish market and teaching it how to play music. This video is on the longer side but really heart warming and worth the time to watch it,
https://video.search.yahoo.com/search/video?fr=yfp-t&p=octopus+plays+piano#id=2&vid=a3f2ecd28a0eb7fea79763bd97a647b0&action=click
I just love how the octopus appears to get all antsy to get to this makeshift instrument. Aside from the sad size of the aquarium it is in, it may be better than the land on someone's dinner plate.

Both news stories tell me that I should
never underestimate another being. Our cats open full size doors by putting their paws underneath them and literally lifting and pulling them open, just to get to their favorite hiding spots. They get all antsy and upset when their kitty beds and sun shades aren't the way they want them to be, although it is of course them who mess things up all the time - we are mostly house keepers and providers of petting and food to them. Who is the superior animal in this relationship? They have trained us well.

Relationships have potential for the beings in them to become something bigger, something unexpected. The cow would not have started to scratch itself if the owners would not have allowed her to roam freely and to have access to some tools. The octopus would not have fallen in love with the keyboard without the right learning environment being provided and lots of patience on the side of its teacher. Some animals one day may save someone's life or make someone's day because they do something we in our limited thinking did not think possible. I do not want to limit the animals around me to limited possibilities just because my mind cannot perceive them. I try to keep an open mind all the time, and I try to have reverence to the intelligence in all beings big and small, even if I do not understand it. Namaste to all animals and all beings, as they all can teach me something.

Best wishes that we all stay safe and warm in the coming days and weeks, when not just our but wildlife's abilities to cope will get tested. If you have a bale of straw and a baggie full of nuts you can spare please do so as it may save a critter's life. Your act of kindness may reward you in the future.



1/18/26 A little over a year ago, I started to
feed the critters that come to our yard during the night. I have seen the foot steps in snow since I moved here, but never did I have the interest to get to know them, until one evening we saw one of our cats interact with an opossum in the backyard. I find opossums very cute and know that they are very useful to have around, so I wanted to attract it so it would come back. Food has gone into a dedicated outdoors bowl every evening since. The bowl gets stuffed with left over chicken and chicken bones, bananas, walnuts, peanuts. I tried various delicious veggies and fruit from broccoli to sweet potatoes to quinoa and neither appears to tickle their taste buds. So, I stock bags of nuts, browning bananas, and we get a whole chicken once a week not just for us but also for both our cats and the opossums.

I wanted to attract opossums only. We would sit on the steps of our porch after dark and wait for the opossums to show up. When we noticed a raccoon, Brad got a long wooden stick. When the raccoon came closer, Brad walked down the steps to shoo it away. Instead of running, it sat back on its hind legs and put its hands together in front of its chest, looking up at Brad with doggy eyes and begging hands. I watched Brad pause for several seconds, clearly uncertain what to do, then he turned around, put away the stick, and came back to where I sat. The raccoon had made its way into Brad's heart. Since then we have accepted that other animals come feed also.

Fortunately, we are not the only house in the neighborhood that feeds them, as I know at least one neighbor who also puts food out every night. Several animals live underneath her stone foundation, which is wonderful, as how else would they survive in the bitter cold months. Right before a cold snap or a snow event, they really fill up. Friday night was such a night. We may not have visitors for several nights because it is dangerous for them to venture out in the snow and very low temperatures.

Fun facts about these critters, which probably live close to your home also:
Opossum jills, jacks, and joeys are great to have roam your yard as they eat ticks, tick nests, and other pests. We see them use their hands to hold the food and take a bite. They need a lot of calcium in their diet so we feed them all the bones that come with a whole chicken.
Scared skunks spray only if there is enough room for them to erect their tail. They look back past their butt when they spray so they can aim. The stink can apparently be washed off by soaking and scrubbing with hydrogen peroxide or baking soda. Tomato juice does not do the trick.
Raccoons use their hands to eat and make sense of the world, and they have whiskers on their paws. They have made it through the cat flap into our sun room, so it now gets blocked off every night.

Today, we have outdoors wildlife cameras to help us know who comes and when.
Our first visitor Friday night got all the berries and chicken pieces:


The opossum had to do with leftovers:


She came too late and only got to sniff the crumbs:


First thing each morning we check the camera to see who came. It brightens our day. What brightens your day?



1/4/26 As every year, The Week had a couple of pages of year end
health and science briefs, and I would like to summarize some of them here for you:

- playing a conch shell until it sounds like a horn strengthens the lungs much more effectively than any breathing exercise. Conch blowing reduces fatigue and increases blood oxygen levels at night. It even appears to reduce sleep apnea, all without any medications or machines.
This sounds like something fun to give a shot and likely very hard to accomplish. If you receive this message and you have mastered conch shell playing please be in touch as I would be interested in hearing about it.

- company appears to make everything more enjoyable. Group meals provide the biggest happiness boost, but playing games and any other activities done with company have a similar effect. The exception: doing dishes and food cleanup, which appear to be more enjoyable when done by oneself.
Indeed, I also like to do the dishes on my own, and we try and have people over for games or lunch as often as we manage to, which is not as often as I would like because work keeps us very busy.

- the shingles vaccine appears to reduce the risk of getting dementia by about 20%, which is huge.
I myself got shot #1 this fall and had a very achy arm for a few days, but that seems very minor in comparison.

- Diquat, the main chemical in the new Roundup, is even worse than the prior version. It's been banned in the EU and even China. It allows toxins to leak from the gut into the blood stream, can damage a range of organs, and is a neurotoxin and a carcinogen.
Considering this, it is amazing that Roundup is pushed so hard by a range of local stores. Bayer and those stores must be making a lot of money and not at all care about the health impacts imposed. I try to frequent stores that do not push such products.

- edible pot products are as bad for heart health as smoking it. A study of 200 million people across 24 studies found that marijuana consumption doubles the risk of dying from heart disease and increases the risk of heart attack and stroke much higher than for people who don't consume. Especially people over 60 are strongly encouraged to abstain from any pot products.
I personally do not require pot to feel happy and relaxed, but I know people who rely on it, and one just hopes that such studies can serve as a wake-up call.

Who can follow all advice that comes across from scientific studies? Not me. I take a bit here and I take a bit there when I see fit and I then I try to make it into a habit. The above all seem pretty straightforward to me, and maybe one or the other resonates.
Have a great 2026!


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